From Session 359, May 8, 2009
You have reasons to move into new expressions of wanting as well as love. We’ll explain.
Wants have ways of letting you realize options. The options will be allowed if they are in tune with your desires. They may be allowed for any number of reasons. Perhaps you have reason to want to do something to love yourself into the next phase of your life. Perhaps you want to love the options more than you have before, so as to appreciate your life now.
We wear many hats, us essences. We love you no matter what. We want your best potentials. We even want to healp you, in many ways, with your worst potentials so you can fear less that you’ll not do better by choosing. In other words, sometimes your best potentials are your worst potentials, because they love themselves into expression so as to healp you love yourself more and ask for things that would be considered better.
So the worst potentials sometimes are the best potentials. Why not consider that your life’s best accomplishments have been the wrong things in your past? This is why you choose them: to learn from them. Why not start by saying, “Even the wrong things are better than not taking action,” then love yourself enough to want to take the actions you need to discover how very wrong things would be or right things would be by allowing yourself to just do it? Why not say, “I want to do something differently. I’m not exactly sure what that is, but I know I need this, so I will try some things”? Then do so.
Try to imagine the life you want. Love yourself into this space in your imagination. This may be a want for a new friend, an articulation of a dream you had in which you learned something new, a new wardrobe, anything that you feal you need has to be acted upon. You don’t do this very often. You don’t act on things you want because you fear getting them, then say, “I didn’t really desire this.” But why not say, “I want this, I want to see how this works, I think I desire things that I want, so I’ll just give it a go”?
Do say what you want, then take action in small ways at first. You can test the waters, in many ways, but to say you have not taken action is the key here. You do, you just do so with great caution. For example, you may have reason to change your lifestyle in ways that don’t accommodate your reasons for getting into the lifestyle you’re in. You’ve perhaps made accommodations for the people in your lives, so you don’t want to wrong on them for stealing your joy, you want to only move into new areas with them, that’s all. Then you take what you know about the situation into the next phase.
For example, you may have reasons to want to say what you have on our mind more than you do because they don’t like for you to express yourself. What do you do? You say, “I want to express myself more, so you can have me doing so here with you, or I will go express myself somewhere else.” They can make the choice. We believe you know the rest. Then you decide where you’ll go next to express yourself, but the decision will be made by those who would be affected by your choice. In other words, you scream out what you need, and then you decide how to get the things you desire. These will sometimes be the same, sometimes won’t be the same. In your terms, they will be met if they are desires. The treantea exercise can help you determine what course to take, then do so.
Here’s another example. Say you have reason to fear that your world is not healthy. What do you do? Do you say, “I want the world to be healthier,” then try to lodge a protest with the local authorities about waste? No, you have many reasons to fear that because you’ve loved in every way the things they bring you, as well as the services they provide. You don’t want to get to their bad side. What do you do? You take this up with the authorities we suggest you would call upper management. They will be the ones who decide.
You’re learning how to love yourselves into better situations, so in doing so, you need to accommodate those you have in your presence, then learn to negotiate out of your situation what you need to by stating your terms.
Now, the terms are in many ways subject to treantea. Treantea is your way of determining the needs you have. The needs you have will sometimes be desires, so we’re using the term “needs” to healp you learn to suggest to yourself that desires in many ways are awaiting you to help you at the very basic level. Okay?
So youse your needs to treantea to deeply inhabit those choices you have in front of you, then lose your fear to negotiate for a better life. This is important, for you need to sonter the situation, love those in it, taking care not to cause harm, but then loving yourself into the next phase of your life by not causing undo grief or pain. You had reason to be in your situation, you have reason to be moving on or changing the situation to suit you better. Okay?
Take on the changes you need to be the best individuals you can be through our simple steps: identify your needs through treantea, then take on the persons you need to in order to love yourself into the next life. In doing so, you’ll discover additional desires as well as options, but to say you need to take action in the first place is the point. Take on your world in beautiful ways without undue stress, for your needs have needs to healp you, too. So do so. We will always be here to assist.